Car won't start - Looking for starter relay switch

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I've been having problems with my 1988 Daihatsu Charade, for the first time since I've had it. I've been told numerous times it is the starter relay switch. I got the part and now can't even find it under the hood. I know it sounds crazy, but I don't think it's there. Nothing happens when I try to start it now. Only the headlights work. I've traced the wires from the battery and there doesn't seem to be anything even resembling the relay switch I got from the auto parts store.

Starter

It's not on the starter. That was my first thought when I couldn't find it, but I've been told there's no way it could be in the solenoid. Thanks for responding!!

Starter Relay Switch

I found it. It's in the left kick panel. Thanks to anyone who might have wanted to help, but didn't know either.